09 Feb 2010, Posted by jay rusovich in Jay Rusovich, 0 Comments

Love at Any Age [with certain conditions]

Let me preface things this way: If you look at life from the perspective of a food chain, you’re on the right track.

Once a woman reaches her middle 30’s, she’s vulnerable, a victim of time in the context of procreation [marriage]. And unless her fantasies are adjusted accordingly, she’s destined for a slow burn to hell, which can be a problem for some.

With this sentiment in mind,  a woman’s first priority must be to dump her fantasies, completely and utterly. Sandblast everything. They’re as useless as they are dangerous. Many women have been lost forever in these delusional wastelands, otherwise described as a bone yards of the damned.

If you want an example of what not dumping fantasies looks like, go to a dating site like Match.com, and see the endless array of 38-year-old women who state a preference for “handsome, athletic, successful men between 28 and 40…who make them laugh.”

Can you believe this shit?

I laugh my ass off every time I see this because I know these same women will end up with men 15 to 90 years their senior.

They’re fishing for fantasies that are as elusive as “Bigfoot,” which is one reason they stopped talking about him so much on “Monster Quest.” The lunatics on the show, the ones with the 4-wheelers and night vision binoculars, were starting to lose their fringe audience to people like Jay Leno, who is real by many accounts.

Anyway, a 28-year-old man will generally NOT choose a 38-year-old woman unless he is a submissive [and she's drop-dead-gorgeous, which even subs demand.]

Men like this often exhibit symptoms of trauma tied to maternal incest, by the way.

Moving on, a 40-year-old man will generally NOT choose a 38-year-old woman because he can choose a 28 year-old-woman, which he generally prefers. See, he’s only 40, which means – when well cared for – he could pass for your son.

If he does happen to fall for you, he’s usually looking for a free pass until someone younger comes along. If not, I suggest you check his psychiatric and/or credit history.

What this means is that women in the aforementioned age category should be focusing their attention on older men. And by older I’m not talking about 2 years. Think 15 to 20, and I’m being conservative, frankly.

This is where fantasy adjustment is crucial.

An attractive 38-year-old woman can have a reasonable expectation of dating a handsome, successful 50-year-old man. However, she must be very fit, stylish and pretty; all the accouterments that accomplished men expect of women in their company.

I know this is nauseates many of you. And I know you hate me for being crass and blunt. But you know that every word of it is true.

You want a certain lifestyle. He wants a beautiful woman.

His job is to earn.

Yours is to be beautiful.

Both sexes objectify one another equally.

If he’s 50 and broke, you look right through him.

If you’re 38 and dumpy, you know what he feels like.

We all pay a price to play this game. And women who understand the rules of engagement are rarely disappointed, in spite of the nagging resentment that reality often produces.

Sea Lions have to put up with this kind of thing constantly if it makes you feel any better.